Learning to Tango Dream Come True
If you’ve ever seen the movie The Scent of a Woman then you know why I wanted to learn to tango. Tango is sensual, passionate, and fiery. And when I began taking lessons, the dance was harder than I would’ve imagined.
Salsa was easy for me to learn. I picked it up almost instantaneously in the clubs -twirling and dipping with ease. But Tango is an art form that must be trained. Every student begins by learning to walk. In tango you slide your foot forward and lean your body over the weight of the front foot. Sounds easy, but not when your balance feels shaky and you might just teeter over. Backwards walking is even harder and there’s nothing natural about the positioning.
And then there’s the closeness. Argentine tango is not for the shy. It’s done in close embrace and you lean your chests into one another for balance. You must rely completely on your partner because it’s almost like those exercises in group training programs where you push against one another’s hands at an angle and keep each other up. If one person pushes to hard the other will topple over. If one person gives in and lets go the other will fall on their face. This is tango – a partnership of balance that must be kept while moving around.
But when done properly, when all the parts flow together and you lean gently into one another, feel the beat of the music and flow to its passionate rhythm you feel like you float on sensuality and grace.
I was lucky enough to go to a Milonga in Buenos Aires. Here a live band played incredible tango music. Master dancers moved together across the floor effortlessly in a swirl of heat. And it was here on this dance floor that I fell in love – no not with a man – but with the dance.
I will spend the rest of my life learning this dance. I’m not certain I will ever master its beauty for it takes so much time and practice. But forever I will be enchanted by its music and movement.
And maybe some day soon, I will find that perfect tango partner. The one that knows just the right lean and we will dance together forever.